There are literally dozens of ways that a woman uses her body language to communicate her interest and attraction to a man. Reading female body language can be simple or complex but the real trick is recognising clusters and progressions.
Understanding our body language is not as difficult as some people would have you believe. All human beings use it and so actually have a “built-in” ability to recognise and read it.
When women take off their shoes, the way they position their feet is a strong indicator of the emotions they’re experiencing. The key to understanding this group of body language signals is simple. If the woman is “pointing” her foot or “raising her heels” off the floor she is consciously or subconsciously making her legs look longer and thus more attractive.
This section concentrates on your body and its hidden language. Understanding the secrets of attraction isn’t hard at all. We’ve listed some of the most powerful aspects and attitudes that really make a difference when it comes to human relationships.
Facial expressions are subtle and the slightest change in the position of an eyebrow can change the entire meaning of the body language being displayed. What’s more, humans are very good at reading facial expressions (and faking them) – far more so than any other aspect of body language.
As explained in the first page of hand gestures, a single sign can definitely have several meanings depending on how it is displayed. To the right are four images of the “Horns” sign that demonstrate this statement.
Lies! Humans use them so often that more than half the time they don’t even realize what they’re doing. Lies to protect, to persecute, to reassure, to undermine, to harm and to heal are everywhere. Are all lies are bad? Is it so wrong to tell a person that they’re prettier than they are – if you love them?
Tactics are used by people on people and critically they must anticipate how other people will behave or respond. Therefore it is essential that the tactician also understands human behaviour. The great tactician out-thinks his or her opponent. Most tactics are designed to manipulate or manoeuvre other people in a way that is advantageous to the tactician.
While many pleasurable or painful things are universal, the degree to which people or groups will find them painful or pleasurable will differ. For example one person may find international travel highly pleasurable while another may find it only marginally enjoyable.
We call them secrets because so few people seem to appreciate how important they are to body language. Each of the ten “secrets” listed below deserves a whole section but hopefully this page will provide a basic introduction.